DOMESTIC VIOLENCE
Domestic Violence may be physical, sexual, financial, psychological, emotional, or other coercive manipulation to maintain power and control over another person in a relationship.
Domestic Violence does not discriminate
Domestic Violence is Not Just Physical
Not Everything Can Be Seen
Other forms of Domestic Violence include:
- Sexual Abuse
- Stalking
- Economic Abuse
- Verbal Abuse
- Digital Abuse
- Psychological Manipulation
Domestic violence happens within different relationships such as:
- Partners in a relationship
- Parent against child
- Child against parent
- Sibling against sibling.
Recognize the Signs
- Controls what you’re doing
- Checks your phone, email, or social
networks without your permission - Forces you to have sex when you don’t want to
- Controls your birth control or insists that you get pregnant
- Decides what you wear or eat or how you spend money
- Prevents or discourages you from going to work or school or seeing your family or friends
- Humiliates you on purpose in front of others
- Unfairly accuses you of being unfaithful
- Destroys your things
- Threatens to hurt you, your children, other loved ones, or your pets
- Hurts you physically (e.g., hitting, beating, punching, pushing, kicking), including with a weapon
- Blames you for their violent outbursts
- Threatens to hurt herself or himself
because of being upset with you - Threatens to report you to the authorities for imagined crimes
- Says things like, “If I can’t have you, then no one can”
What You Can Do
- If you are in immediate danger call 9 -1 -1
- Get medical care. If you have been injured or sexually assaulted, go to a local hospital emergency room or urgent care center.
- Know the signs of Domestic Violence!
- Call a helpline for free, anonymous help.
- Make a safety plan to leave.
- Think about a safe place for you to go.
- Make a list of things you will need.
- Staff at the National Domestic Violence Hotline can help you plan.
- Save the evidence. Keep evidence of abuse such as pictures of your injuries or threatening emails or texts, in a safe place.
- Find out where to get help in your community.
- Reach out to someone you trust: A family member, friend, co-worker, spiritual leader, support group or mental health professional.
- Look into a restraining order/protection order